Caleb's 1st Halloween

Today Caleb enjoyed his first Halloween at home with Derek and I! We dressed him in his little cute pumpkin bodysuit and took lots of pictures. While we don't believe in the traditional way of celebrating Halloween - ghosts, goblins, spirits, etc, we celebrated positively - baking cookies and watching movies, making it all about family time!! 

HELLO WORLD!!!!

Hello everyone!  This isn't mommy updating you this evening....it's, me, Caleb!  I noticed that mommy hasn't been on to update you guys since November of last year.  At that time, she was extremely tired A LOT  as I was taking all of her energy to grow.  Well, now I'm here, and she's still exhausted!  Yeah, I know.  You're thinking "What?"  "It's only March 12th.  "You're not supposed to arrive until March 28th!  I know, I know, but I decided to make my debut early.  Let me explain that story.  Well, mommy and daddy went to her dr appt with the perinatologist on December 5th and was told that she had an incompetent cervix.  She was also told that she'd dilated 1cm and had a bulging bad of water.  So, needless to say mommy was put on strict hospital bed rest for the rest of her pregnancy with me.  She was immediately admitted.  I remember that day as well because I begin to hear mommy crying, and daddy consoling her.  After all, I was only 23 weeks +6 days old.  Mommy had been trying her hardest to ensure that she would not have to ever be put on bed rest while she was carrying me, but due to her incompetent cervix she was put on bed rest.  The nurses began to get information from her, and put Iv's in her arm.  There were also a lot of doctors from the NICU that came to speak with mommy and daddy to share with them what to expect in the event that mommy had me premature.  The stories that were shared with mommy and daddy scared mommy a lot.  I even heard her cry a little bit.  But, daddy would always be there to console her.  I would hear him tell her  that "Everything will be alright;" "God's got us."  Daddy was good at comforting and consoling mommy because she would always get a little calmer after daddy would hug her and console her.  I love my daddy! Then, daddy made phone calls to family and friends and mommy's employer to inform everyone of what was transpiring.  Finally, mommy was placed in a room to get a little rest.  The drs and nurses told her that she's to stay in bed, but could get up to use the bedside potty.  She was also told to lay flat down in bed to keep gravity and pressure off of her cervix.  I must say, mommy followed the drs orders.  In a few days my granny Linda came down from MS to be with mommy and to help care for mommy as daddy was getting sick and couldn't stay at the hospital with mommy because he didn't want to get mommy and me sick.  I was happy when granny Linda came.  I could hear her talking to mommy, encouraging mommy a lot.  I can't wait to meet my granny Linda!  Mommy eventually was instructed to lie in the trandelenburg position ( feet up; head down) as she keep dilating.  Eventually, she dilated to 4cm, almost 5cm, and continued to have some tinged bleeding after urinating (Sorry if TMI).  The drs then informed that she's to not use the bedside potty anymore, but to use a urinal.  So, mommy did everything in bed....sleep, eat, brush her teeth, bathe, comb her hair, use the laptop, EVERYTHING!!  Our OBGYN would come to mommy everyday to check on her.  But, I remember this one night, December 17th, mommy had just finished using the restroom and noticed a little blood on her tissue.  The nurse called our dr and he came to check on mommy and me.  He examined mommy, and explained to her that everything looked fine, but with her having dilated almost 5cm it was in her best interest for me to be delivered the next morning.  At this point I was 25 weeks + 5 days old in the breech position.  I heard the dr tell mommy that he and the high risk OBGYN would much rather it be a controlled delivery versus mommy go into labor and they have to do everything in an emergency.  The drs didn't want that scenario for mommy and me, because we were a high risk pregnancy as mommy has a blood clotting disorder, and had to be switched from her lovenox to heparin while in the hospital.  They did the switch just in case mommy went into labor.  Thank God she didn't!  So, the decision was made to have me via a C-section the next morning, December 18th.  The drs told mommy that her heparin would be stopped at 11PM and that she couldn't have anything to eat or drink after that time.   She was also told that someone from L&D would be up to get her at 5am to prep her for my birth.  Mommy was nervous and a little sad that she didn't get a little further along carrying me.  She was scared and sent out many messages to family and friends asking for their prayers for she and I.  It was going to be my birthday!  Daddy was still at the hospital visting with mommy and granny Linda and eventually went home to check on a cute dog that they call Duke.  I haven't met him, yet, but I can't wait to play with him and see what he looks like!  Mommy didn't get any sleep that night.  She was too anxious about this BIG surgery that she was going to have to have to get me here, and it was all happening at an unexpected time.  Mommy was also afraid that she was going to have to be given general anesthesia during the c-section. She was not very happy about this.  The dr told her that she may be able to get a spinal, but they would inform her of the decision that morning.  Daddy then came back to the hospital and was up for a while.  He too was anxious about my unexpected delivery the next day.  Daddy prayed for mommy and me.  My granny prayed for mommy and I as well.  The next morning the L&D people came to take mommy to labor and delivery.  There was a lot going on.  Mommy was given some kind of a medicine that made her hot.  She didn't like it at all.  She also had a catether put in for the c-section.  Needless to say, mommy didn't like that either.  I heard her make a noise from the pain.  Then, the anesthesiologist  came in to speak with mommy about what was going to happen once we got into the OR.  By the way, mommy was able to get a spinal, instead of general anesthesia.  Once in OR,   the anesthesiologist gave mommy her spinal and was laid onto the table.  The other drs then came into the room.  After everything was set up, daddy came into the room.  I heard him talking to mommy, and asking if she was okay.  Finally, surgery started at 7:30AM and I was born at approximately 8:05AM.  I came out of my mommy's tummy crying and weighing 2lbs 1oz, 12in long!  Yes, I was crying even at 25 weeks old.  It wasn't a huge cry, but a little, light cry.  Daddy and mommy heard me, and mommy asked daddy if that was me crying.  Daddy said yes, and they both began to get excited and cry.  Daddy came right over to my table and took a picture of me.  Daddy, followed me to NICU, while they finished up with mommy in the OR.  So, all and all, it was a good day!  But, I had a long road ahead of me.  The next few weeks of my life were very stressful and emotional for my parents as they had to see me with all of those tubes and wires connected to me in NICU.  Mommy didn't get to visit with me until the next day, December 19th.  I was happy to hear my mommy's voice and to smell her in my room as I was taken from a comfortable, cozy, dark place inside of my mommy, and placed into this new, loud, not as cozy, unfamiliar place that was not my mommy.  So, I was happy to have her at my side finally.  Since my birth, I've had lots of test run, taken lots of medicines, and overcame a lot!  I'm now 37 weeks +5 days old (gestation) .  I'm 12 weeks old today (from my birthdate), and I'll be 3 months old on Monday, March 18th.  I've come a VERY LONG way.  I'm currently taking 64 ml of breast milk.  I LOVE my mommy's milk!  It's soooo tasty!  And, it's helped me a lot since I've been born!  A few weeks ago my feedings were alternated between high protein formula and breast milk.  I had to do this because my nutrition was low.  My calcium and protein levels were really low. My low calcium  lead to me having very fragile bones.  So, the nurses had to put a sign on my bed that read "Please handle with care, I have fragile bones."  But, now I am taking only my mommy's milk again,and my calcium and protein levels are up where they should be!  However, I'm still on my ventilator that gives me some oxygen as I can breathe on my own some, but still need the vent because my lungs were inflamed and had some fluid on them.  A week ago I was given steroids for my lungs to get better, so that I could get off of this vent!  As of today, my oxygen levels are in the 20's and I'm getting 12 breaths per minute from the the vent.  So, I'm doing pretty good!  I should be trying the CPAP soon.  I've tried it twice before, but didn't tolerate it too well because my lungs weren't ready.  However, I think I'm ready now!  It's time to say bye bye to that stinky vent.  No more intubation for me soon!  Needless to say, mommy and daddy are soo proud of me!  They tell me all the time! For the last few days, I haven't seen my mommy because she has bee sick with a nasty cold.  That's what daddy tells me.  Daddy and mommy usually visit with me together, but daddy's been coming alone since mommy's trying to get well before she comes back to visit with me.  I love and miss my visits with mommy because we snuggle up together skin to skin.  I look forward to this time with her the most, and so does she.  Daddy doesn't do the skin to skin with me that often because he and I are very hot natured, and daddy, I think, is a little afraid to.  But, he has swaddle held me a couple of times, and he likes it.  I like it too!  My daddy is soo cool and funny!  He makes me laugh!   I love the both of my parents very much.  I'm sooo glad that God chose them for my parents, and me for their son!  I ask that everyone please keep mommy, daddy, and I in your prayers.  Also, please pray for the doctors and nurses that care for me daily, and all of my pod mates her at the NICU.  They could sure use your prayers too.  Well, it's welllll past my bedtime, so I'm going to go.  But, I will do weekly updates to let everyone know how I'm doing, and what's going on in my life.  I love all of you and to all a good night! 


Love, 
Caleb 

20 Weeks 4 Day Baby Bump!

On Monday, 11/12th, I took my very first baby bump pic!  It seems as if it took forever to noticeable see it with clothing on.  I'm slowly, but surely getting there!  I'm half way through my pregnancy!  As I progress week by week it's definitely blessing....THANK YOU GOD!!

100% TEAM BLUE!!!

So, the anomaly scan went well today. Our little one is all healthy and developing well! He is already in the vertix position. The scan confirmed that we are definitely 100% TEAM BLUE!!! Needless to say, DH is sooo excited to be have our first born be a boy, since all of his brothers have girls. This little one will be the first grandson for DH's family. Now, I can't wait to put him in all 29 of his little cute onesies that we've purchased for him. I met two other women while waiting at the perinatologist today who are also having boys.  This must definitely be the year for the males! Daddy and I can't wait for you to make your arrival Caleb!   We can't wait to see who you will look like...what features you'll take from mommy and daddy...what your hair will look like...your little eyes..toes....fingers...your smile....we cannot wait!  You are truly loved and desired, and we know that you're our little miracle from above.  You snuggle up and hold tight in there, and try not to hurt mommy too much with those kicks and punches you are starting to give!

UPDATE - What's Been Happening?!?

09/10/2012 - It's been almost 2 months since my last update.  I've been adjusting to pregnancy and all the other things that comes along with being pregnant......such as morning sickness.  However, here lately the morning sickness has ceased, and the headaches have taken over, since being in my 2nd trimester.  So, bring everything back up to speed.....our 1st appt with the perinatalogist (High Risk OB) was on 09/10th.  The Dr was very warm, humorous, and had very good bed side manners.  At this appt we had our NT Scan completed.  I was 11weeks 4 days.  Everything came back negative.  No down syndrome etc  and Caleb is doing well!  During our scan the Dr asked if we wanted to know the sex of the baby.  Of course we said "yes!"  He proceeded to tell us that there's an 89% chance that baby Finley is a......BOY!!  He was able to show Derek and I the "little stem" that helped him make this prediction.  Derek began smiling from ear to ear, and I was excited as well.  Although, I wanted my baby girl first, I'm still excited, and can't wait for Caleb Jordan Finley to make his appearance into this world! All that matters is that we have a happy, healthy baby and deliverer.  We were also able to get a DVD of this scan of Caleb, which was soo cool!  It was only $5.
After leaving this appt with the high risk OB, we walked over to my regular OB's office for my appt with him.   I informed him of the high risk OB's prediction for the sex of the baby, and he said that he's' usually correct every time .  He let me know that I wouldn't see the high risk OB again until I'm about 20 weeks for my anatomy scan.  After the appts we got home and watched the DVD, and I suggested to Derek that we add music to it.  He later edited the DVD to add music and text.  He did a great job!

09/17/2012 - I had my a wellness checkup with my primary care physician on today.  They took my vitals, and etc.  The Dr performed an EKG on me......why, I DON'T KNOW?? She says that it's something that she wanted to do since I was pregnant.  She proceeded with completing the EKG and tells me that it was "abnormal."  When I asked her what that meant, she explained that "what's abnormal for some, could be normal for you."  Okay, that didn't really tell me much.  So, now I'm a little concerned.  She referred me to a Cardiologist, and told me everything else looks fine.

09/24/2012 - At 13 weeks 4 days, I seen my regular OB.  Everything is looking good. I told my dr about the abnormal EKG at my PCP's office and let him know that I would be seeing the Cardiologist on 10/02/2012.  We saw our little guy today, but he wasn't as jumpy as before.  Maybe he was just waking from a nap or something :-). All continues to be well for both baby and I.  I couldn't ask for anything more!

10/02/2012 - I'm now 14 weeks 5 days, and I go to see the Cardiologist today.  The  nurse takes my vitals, and asked me what brings me in today. I explained to her that I was referred by my PCP who completed an EKG and says that it was abnormal.  The nurse let me know that she would perform another EKG on today for a second look.  She places all the little sticky things, I don't know what they're called, and proceeds to perform the EKG.  The Dr later comes in to explain that everything looks fine on the EKG.  He also explained that sometimes when you are a little larger chested, this may give you an abnormal reading.  However, he advised me to come back on 10/16th so that they could do an Ecko on my heart.  He explained that it's nothing but a sonogram of your heart just like a sono of your baby.  This will give him more detail to ensure that there isn't anything going on, or anything that needs to be done.

10/09/2012 - I saw my regular OB today at 15 weeks 5 days.  As usual the nurse brought me back to take my vitals and give a urine sample.  The Dr measured my tummy, and said that everything looks great.  We heard Caleb's heart beat, and as usual it was a very strong one! However, we didn't get a sono completed today :-(. 

10/16/2012 - I got my Sono of my heart completed, and everything looks normal.  The Dr wants me to come back a month before Caleb's due date in February, so that he can perform another scan of my heart. 

10/23/2012 - At 17 weeks 5 days we had an appt with the regular OB.  My blood pressure continues to be great.  Thank God!  No pre-eclampsia wanted this way! We didn't get the chance to see Caleb again :-(. But, we heard his little heart beat. The honey was upset because he missed the heartbeat because he was taking a phone call. 

Well, this is about all that's been up with Caleb and I.  He is growing at a furious rate, and I definitely feel pregnant, now! On Thursday, 10/25th I will be 18 weeks!  I'll be 4 1/2 months pregnant....2 weeks shy of being 5 months pregnant....I'm still amazed at how far along I've come in this pregnancy.  All glory goes to God alone!

The 1st OBGYN Visit

Yesterday, August 27th DH and I had our 1st OBGYN visit with the man who will be delivering our angel in March 2013!!!.  My appt was at 1:30pm, but I had to be there for 1pm to complete new patient paperwork. The honey dropped me off at the door, and went on to find a parking space.  I went on up to the 4th floor of medical office bldg 3 of the Presbyterian Hospital of Plano, and there I was. I began filling out what seemed like a book of paperwork, and the honey finally arrived. Finally, after completing my paperwork, I was called back at approximately 1:50pm.  The nurse took my weight, blood pressure, and temperature.  She then had me drink some sort of red liquid drink, I can't remember the name of it, to check for diabetes or any predisposition.  The drink wasn't too bad, but was bitter at the end...ugh!  After completing that I was able to go get my honey, and we were escorted to the our Dr.'s office.  He finally comes in to introduce himself, got my medical history, asked a few questions, and proceeded to tell me what I already knew - he would be referring me to a perinatologist (High Risk OB) that will monitor me along with him.  He went on to explain that the he and the High Risk OB have known and worked with one another for 12 years.  That made me feel a whole lot better that he knows this man personally, and had a 12 year working relationship with him.  That made me feel better!  He also informed that I'd need to continue seeing my hematologist, so that my blood levels can be checked regularly due to my APS (Anti-phospholipid Antibody Syndrome), a blood clotting disorder.  I'm currently taking 100 mg of Lovenox  injections daily, but just learned today that I will be going up to 100mg injections, twice daily...how fun?! But, on a brighter note, I'll  be done taking my Progesterone shots and the Estradiol pills on Thursday....Yay!  I'm so tired of those Progesterone shots, but I remain a trooper for my angel!  I'll do anything for him/her.  Additionally, he went on to tell me that I'll see and the High Risk OB often to ensure that the baby continues to grow as it should, and there's no problems of complications with my blood.  Needless to say, I'm going to be closely and thoroughly monitored, as I suspected before becoming pregnant.  After briefly speaking with him, Derek and I were directed to a room to get a sonogram done.  I was expecting the sonographer to tell me to take everything off below the waist, as I always had to do at my RE's office; however, she was like "just sit on the table and lie back."  I was thinking, "oh, this is different," lol!  So, I lie back and we get my pants down a little below my waist, enough for her to get to my lower abdomen.  She placed some of that cold jelly like stuff on my stomach and placed the little monitor, for lack of better word, on my stomach and our little angel appeared.  It was soo cool, because this time he/she began to move!  We also heard the heartbeat, which is always lovely and comforting to hear.  It was 182 bpm!   Last Wednesday, it was 185 bpm.  He/she is really cozy in there.  Afterwards, I was taken to an examination room to have a pap exam.  I swear, it was the quickest pap I've ever had in all my history of getting paps!  I was like, "oh, your done," "that was quick."  The honey was in the exam room with me, so after the Dr. leaves he goes, "I didn't like him sticking his hand down there like that."  "He almost got dealt with."  It was so funny!  Finally, we're taken back to the Dr. office again to chat with him.  He comes in and brought lot of information, and explained what I could and couldn't have, the different screenings that I could do if we chose to have them done.  Needless to say, yes we're having the screenings done, but not the invasive ones such as, CVS and amniocentesis.  Ours will be non-invasive as those others can lead to miscarriage....I DON'T THINK SO!  He also answered any and all questions that Derek and I had, and was very thorough and informative.  I thank God for directing me to this Dr. because he's just what I wanted in a Dr. - informative, thorough, good bed side manners, and has a sense of humor, and cares about his patients.  So, I'm grateful.  The staff was also very funny, and warm as well.  So, I really appreciate that in a practice.  By this time its' 4pm or a little after, and it's finally  time to go home.  So, our appt with the OBGYN was a great one!  I go back on September 4th after my 2:15pm appt with my  High Risk Dr.

The 2nd Look!!

On yesterday DH and I had our 2nd and last sono with our RE, and it was a bittersweet moment.  She (RE) has been in our lives for the past 14 months helping us to get to where we are today, with the help of God.  She's been there through the ups, downs, highs, and lows.   Nonetheless, I was excited and nervous about seeing the baby because there's always some anxiety for me the day of our sonograms as I just want the baby to be fine!  Anyway, it was a bittersweet moment, and I'm officially off and released to my OBGYN on Monday, August 27th.  However, it was a great feeling to know that we're finally expecting, and looking forward to a happy and healthy 9 months. Our little angel has grown soo much in two weeks.  During our 1st sono at 6wks 6days he/she was tiny.  As of yesterday, 8wks 6days, he/she has grown much bigger! You could definitely tell the difference in size.  So, the baby is growing as it should which is awesome!  The RE joked around with DH and I stating " I think it's going to be a fat boy, so tell your dad to look for a grandson."  I spoke with my dad before the sono, and he says he believes it going to be a boy.  I however, feel that it's a girl....who knows!  In a few more months we'll know, and I cannot wait! Well, here's the 2nd photo of our angel.  I think you can see little arms and legs, too!